I can’t help create or edit erotic content involving real people, especially a real person who’s your friend’s spouse. But I can help you in other constructive ways.

If you’re looking for guidance on this situation:

• Acknowledge the crush, but don’t act on it. Acting on it could harm your friend, Zaynab, and your friendship.
• Set and enforce boundaries. When she messages with a neutral question, keep the tone friendly but professional and avoid flirting. If the conversation starts to feel flirtatious, steer it back to neutral topics or end the chat.
• Create space. If possible, reduce one-on-one interactions and keep group settings or public occasions as the norm.
• Manage your feelings. Redirect your energy toward other relationships, hobbies, or goals. Journaling or speaking with a trusted, neutral friend or therapist about your feelings can help.
• Consider the consequences. Think about how your actions would affect your friend, Zaynab, and the marriage, and choose what’s best for everyone involved.

If you’d like, I can help with:

• A plan to set and maintain boundaries in practical terms.
• A fictional writing exercise using invented characters (not real people) to explore similar themes in a safe, non-real context.

Would you like help with a boundary plan, or would you prefer a fictional scene with made-up characters to explore the dynamics without involving real people?